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I’m Ali.
Husband, father, Certified Counsellor, and Integrative Coach.
I help high-performing men get their love life sorted, whether they’re dating, in a relationship, or trying to rebuild something that’s falling apart.
This all started with one simple thing I kept seeing:
Smart men, successful in so many areas of life, struggling when it came to women.
And not because they’re weak, or clueless, or broken.
But because no one ever taught them how to lead in love the way they lead everywhere else.
That gap is what I fix.
As a husband and a father, I’ve done this work myself.
I know what it takes to build a strong relationship and what it looks like when things quietly start falling apart.
And I know how easy it is to slip into habits that feel normal, but actually push connection away.
That’s why I do what I do.
My approach blends behavioural psychology, evolutionary theory, and attachment science.
It’s not about tricks or games.
It’s about clarity, structure, and understanding yourself, her, and what actually makes things work.
I’ve spent over a decade coaching men through these exact issues.
If you’re ready for that,
You’re exactly where you need to be.
Successful partnerships are built upon the principles of self-care first and trust in yourself.
I strongly believe that in order to attract your ideal partner, it is crucial to prioritize self-improvement and gain insight into your own behavioural patterns before understanding theirs.
Through my own personal journey and experiences with love, infidelity and cluelessness about women, I have come to realize a common pattern: many individuals have had challenging childhoods that shape their subconscious beliefs and, consequently, impact their romantic relationships and outcomes.
It was through this introspection that I discovered the significance of addressing limiting beliefs, false ideas and healing myself first before having unshakeable confidence to attract women that I desired. I've been happily married for over 7yrs now with an amazing baby boy.
LET ME HELP YOU TAKE THE SAME JOURNEY
LET ME HELP YOU TAKE THE SAME JOURNEY
The core principles that I teach are based on my F.A.S.T strategy:
Principle One:
Principle One:
Fix & Find (F):
We look at healing past unhealthy programming from childhood: identifying and addressing patterns that are affecting your relationships.
Recovering from low self-esteem/self-worth and a negative self-image to gain charisma, attractiveness and confidence.
Learning to express and set boundaries and creating interdependence vs. dependence while dating and in relationships.
Principle Two:
Principle Two:
Attraction (A):
Providing insight into the subconscious desires and needs of men and women based on short and long-term mating strategies.
Helping men and women regain a sense of masculine and feminine polarity to create sexual chemistry based on the laws of attraction.
The ins and outs of attraction and optimising your appearance and grooming to win.
Principle Three:
Principle Three:
Synchronise (S):
Understanding how love is created through complimentary qualities and compatibility of needs vs compatibility of priorities.
Creating a plan to build a marriage based around objective healthy reference points vs fantasy and Disney ideas.
Understanding how to meet each other's 6 universal needs and the vehicles that drive them as healthy and unhealthy coping mechanisms.
Principle Four:
Principle Four:
Track (T):
Learning to calibrate yourself to each other's changing needs that will naturally occur in your journey as you progress in your relationship.
Mastering the rules for arousal and how to keep the attraction developing whilst building deep-rooted feelings of love, respect and trust to keep each other loyal.
The finishing touches, helping to sustain a long term relationship and foster desire with key elements that every couple must have.
A few facts about me!
Originally from South-East Asia, I moved to the UK when I was 8 years old. I had a very successful career in the art & design industry after graduating in BA Interactive Multimedia. As a senior menswear designer for men's high street fashion my designs have been sold throughout UK and Ireland.
However, my studies in human biology and a deep desire to understand why me exes cheated on me and kept leaving me led me to become obsessed with evolutionary psychology and behavioural psychology to figure out why.
In the process of this journey I learned the secrets to understanding why I failed and how to help other men like me facing the same dilemmas with women as well as their own health.
What I discovered and found led me to finally getting married at exactly the age I planned (35yrs) and I've been happily married since.
After a decade in learning about how people work I decided to get my diploma and certified to become "qualified". In reality 90% of what I learned from this proved to me why the current psychology and counselling industry is failing men.
I turned towards coaching instead of counselling to avoid placing myself into a box by the industry so I could teach men and women what actually works. Because of the polarising content I often teach I keep my identity anonymous in public settings to safeguard my personal life and family.
Avoid The Awkward Silence On Your First & Last Dates
Avoid The Awkward Silence On Your First & Last Dates
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