Private 1-2-1 Coaching Session Packages - SINGLE, SILVER, GOLD, PLATINUM

⚠️WARNING - Please do NOT book one of these packages unless you have booked a 60 mins diagnosis session first.

These are live video sessions of 60 mins over Google Meet (You don't need a Google account or email)

Choose from:

SINGLE session
SILVER package (4 x sessions)
GOLD package (8 x session)
PLATINUM package (12 x sessions)

You should ideally book one of these packages once you've already had the Discovery Session.

Coaching includes but not limited to addressing root problems related to:

Infidelity
Communication breakdown
Lost Intimacy
Lost Attraction
Trauma & Attachment Styles
Emotional Healing

Coaching Style & Approach

I use a combination of Integrated Therapy approach using; Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Emotional Focused Therapy (EFT) and Person Centred Therapy.

These are outcome oriented sessions that require you spending time outside of the sessions to do further research on the topics and techniques I share and to adopt the strategies and methods learned within the session by applying them as soon as possible.

Each session comes with resources, task oriented outcomes leading into tracking your progress each week. You get additional resources such as links to supplementary videos, audio recordings and PDF documents as per your individual situation and the root problems discovered.

Please note, these sessions can be very intense as a lot of things are covered and uncovered to get to the root causes. These sessions are breakthrough sessions and alone will not be enough for change and transformation to occur in your life. You have to apply and use what you learn for the results to occur.

For the purpose of reviewing sessions, keeping track of progress and keeping evidence of sessions taking place as well as the interaction during session, the sessions are recorded by audio only with an offline software to help safeguard your identity as much as possible.

Based on client/coach confidentiality agreement, this audio will only be shared with client using WeTransfer, for reviewing the session and making additional notes by the client towards applying what was learned and will NEVER be shared with third-party or made public without the written consent of the client.

Below is an example of session strategy used regularly with clients that have attachment issues that have proven to succeed 100% of the time:

Understanding your attachment style and how to heal it (4-6 weeks)

Key areas of discovery and work:

discover your full attachment type and how to heal it
what kind of attachment types you need to avoid to not mistake attachment issues for love
understanding the cause of your attachment so you don't replicate it with your intimate partner going forward

The aim of this stage is to heal your childhood wounds and traumas, regrets, internalised shame and anger towards yourself. This will help to attract you to men who have healthy attachment styles themselves, instead of men who are emotionally unavailable or immature. This involves digging deep into the initial memories that caused the trauma and unblocking any memories that have remained dormant and blocked as a way for the body to cope. These memories must be freed to find the missing pieces to the puzzle of the root causes.

Session strategy and outcome outline

Session 1: Addressing your unique attachment style

Watch the 3 videos on insecure attachment styles by Dr Kim Sage to determine which style you most resonate with prior to session.
Understanding the impact of attachment on relationships, neediness, insecurities and commitment issues. Discovering your attachment style properly through analysis of your primary caregiver interactions.
Taking a deep dive into strategies that can be used daily to slowly start healing your attachment style. Check attachment style healing guide for your attachment style.
Testing out the strategies in your own time and daily pattern to gain positive confirmation of healthy interactions. Learning to build on a new framework of positive experiences to override the past negative ones.

Session 2: Using the 3 languages method to gain self-control and grounding

Learning to grieve and let out the pain. A guided strategy to allow your body to shed tears and let the blocked up pain leave. Healing the body by releasing the built up tension.
Access to document guide to practical exercises and daily behaviours to implement healing to your specific attachment style and lifestyle.
Understanding the “3 languages grounding technique” to make you conscious of your attachment triggers to prevent them controlling you.
Learning to stand up to those who trigger your attachment by setting ground rules for conversations and receiving your time and energy. Learning to respond, not react.

Session 3: Understanding your fears and learning to trust yourself

Understanding the conditions of trust in the world we live in and how it is gained.
Applying this rule of trust building towards God as the objective source of peace and reliance. How to let your actions manifest with heavenly support by practising patience the right way.
Digging deep into your worst fears surrounding your survival, success and relationships.
Challenging your fears through ‘narrative therapy’ and ‘cognitive restructuring’.
Gaining self-reliance, inner strength and confidence through mastering of knowledge and experience. How to trust yourself to handle any situation and whatever outcome occurs.

Session 4: How your attachment style can drive your spouse away

Understanding the 5 ways attachment issues can drive your spouse or partner away. Fear of abandonment, fear of trusting, emotional distancing, need for control and inability to communicate.
Addressing each of the issues with an example to provide clarity.
Addressing the key issues from the 5 that are relevant to your attachment style by going through past memories and rewiring the meanings to a healthy response.
Learning about the “fight cycle” to prevent repetitive arguments by recognising the negative patterns. Individual strategies provided for both partners to help each other recognise and stop the escalation.
Method to avoid blaming each other. Defining the common enemy of the “fight cycle” and naming it as a third party to give it a form away from each other.

If you find the above style of outcome oriented coaching is something that you like the look of and want to work with me then book your sessions with me ->> here

Client testimonials:

"I was going through some very difficult times. I was suffering from anger; I was having relationship problems. I started to notice it, that it was gradually getting worse and then people that were close to me was telling me that I was self-destructive. I started looking for help outside. I went through other services but when I met with Ali, when I contacted him, he was very supportive, he was very understanding to my situation.

On our first meeting I felt so much had come out, he listened to everything, all my problems and where their roots were coming from. My faults as well, my thinking process. Over the period of meeting Ali, he gave me so much material, so much advice on how to perfect myself, how to handle difficult situations. Through the months over the meetings I’ve had with him, his always been there to give me advice on hand and every problem I had he had a solution that worked effectively. It helped me in so many ways, everyone’s realised that I’ve changed as a person now. I recommend using him." ~ Hamza

"I honestly appreciate the advice that I got from you. It helped me so much in building my confidence. There was a time where I felt so low that I wanted to give up and not continue going far in life, such as going to uni and becoming successful. I was feeling so depressed thinking about that person, but talking to you has changed my mind and opened my mind to many things. You motivated me to do what I have to do and be confident in all the choices I make.

Have started to move on from my past and think of the life ahead of me to build myself as a better person. We definitely need more life coaches like you in the world to help us out through our tough times. Ali has made me feel that I can be that happy person I was before and that no one can put me down and stop me from reaching my goals in life. I honestly felt so happy after talking to you and felt like my life has a meaning. Just because someone leaves from your life doesn't mean your life has stopped, it pushes you to achieve more goals out there and opens a lot of opportunities. So thank you so much for your kind support and your time, it really meant a lot to me.”

~ Josef

“Ali made me realise that I hadn't forgiven and moved past the anger I had towards my ex, even after months of separating. That moment in my life was really difficult, I had economic, family and health problems and I felt stuck. I needed to break the circle, but how could I start? I remember very well how he guided me towards understanding meditation in depth and that has made a huge positive impact in my daily routine to heal. He told me exactly how to do it, what kind of sensations I should aim to feel and the benefits. For me this meditation advice has been incredible and has been the most crucial in my positive change.

When I think about my ex now, I feel none of those negative emotions. I feel peace inside. He told me about God and the nature of humans to explain how to fix my relationship with my parents as this was another emotional issue. Another important change Ali inspired in me was to eat healthier as this was part of having a healthy overall self which I've adopted. Ali and I have become close friends over the coaching and I would recommend him to anyone serious about healing from any relationship, emotional or mindset issues.” ~ Pat

“I had some serious girlfriend issues and Ali’s coaching & knowledge of study in human relationships is really mind-blowing. He made it super easy to understand the issues by always providing great examples and counter arguments to my excuses and poor reasoning.

He really knows what he’s doing with his clients and I would happily go back to him again. Some people think he’s expensive but that’s why he’s great at what he does. I would rather pay a little more to get the problem fixed for good than keep going back for top ups with someone who can’t.

He’s as straight as they come with his approach and doesn’t waste time hoping to make one session into loads to get more money out of you. No wonder, he’s got his money back guarantee!”

~ Sandeep

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